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Anal Stretching – If you’re new to anal play, you might be thinking, “Why would I want to stretch my butthole?!” Technically, anal stretching is anything that gradually stretches the anus and allows you to insert toys (or a penis) that you couldn’t comfortably take in the past. Within BDSM the term usually applies to stretching above and beyond the amount required for anal intercourse with an average penis, and training to take on large toys with diameters of over 2.5 inches. Anal stretching can go to extremes (including anal fisting and insertions of extremely large objects), but the anal stretching kink can also just be the enjoyment of the process of gently (and slowly) training the butt. As your body stretches out to accommodate something ever-so-slightly larger than your comfortable spot, it can feel physically intense. For some people, this intensity mentally translates into pleasure. The biggest risk is the same risk with heading into anal sex too quickly: the risk of microtears. Tears of the skin of the anus open your body up to the possibility of infection. Anal Stretching is meant to be a slow kink, don’t go too quickly at first. With enough anal stretching, you’ll learn how your body processes the sensation and the aftermath. From there, you can start to push near those limits. At first however, you have to give yourself time to learn what those limits are.

Has a friend or partner ever revealed to you that they enjoy this kink/fetish? Is this something you may be interested in or does this sound like something that might make it on your limit list? If interested, would you be more likely to Top or bottom this kink/fetish? Always remember, no kink-shaming because our lifestyle is full of diversity!