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How do gender identity and BDSM collide, and does one influence the other? Could our BDSM identity influence our gender identity, and could our gender identity influence our identity of Dominance or submission? Today we consider these questions as we help you define your own sexuality, gender, gender identity, and gender expression.
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So a question we’ve often been asked is what is Frenzy and why is it considered so bad. This comes up often when someone speaks about “sub frenzy” but there is also “Dom frenzy” as well as other variations on the theme. Today we shed some light on these situations by looking at the bigger picture and then how frenzy might manifest in people’s behavior through the want to do ALL the things, all the time, more and more, and all NOW!
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While we primarily focus on BDSM, it’s also important to cover some types of sex education as well. As with many things, small gaps in what we know about basic things can lead to larger problems when we try to bring in more involved levels of kink play. Instead of Googling in incognito, here’s a compilation of answers to frequently asked questions about anal play.
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You might see someone listed on a BDSM profile that they have a Mentor or they are under the Protection of someone in the lifestyle. Where can you find a Mentor or Protector? How do you pick one? Do you even need one? Today we answer those questions and give good advice for finding people who you can trust to guide and protect you within this lifestyle.
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What does it mean to “push your limits” and who can push them? If you spend any time around other people in this lifestyle you will hear the phrase pushing your limits so today we are talking about what limits should and shouldn’t be pushed. We also discuss how to do scenes involving pushing limits.
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Everything in life has risk, in our vanilla life we learn how to work around those to survive. Every kink has some level of risk, we lower the risk with education and training. Some kinks can be riskier than others and can carry the increased potential for harm and even a fatality. Today we discuss Edge Play and define the differences between hurt and harm.
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Being kind to each other and showing gratitude to your partner isn’t a kink or vanilla thing, it’s a human one. But because our identities in D/s can be very clearly defined, we can fall into a trap of taking our partner for granted. Submissives and Dominants alike should show and receive gratitude for what we bring to a relationship. Today we talk about ways we can show gratitude within BDSM.
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