There are people pushing the “must receive before you can give” ideology in the BDSM lifestyle. Meaning a Top (person doing/giving the kink) must experience a kink before they can give and fully understand that kink to a bottom. That would be ok if that Top was into receiving that kink, which is not always the case. Tops have likes and limits too!
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